If You Suspect a Drinking or Drug Problem: Questions to Ask

Do you suspect a family member might have a problem? Love First recommends asking yourself these questions. If you answer yes to two or more of these questions, the person should probably be assessed by a professional in the drug and alcohol treatment field.


(When the word alcohol is used, you can replace alcohol with the name of any other drug.)


Does the person you are concerned about:


  • Drink more now than in the past?

  • Drink less but still has problems with alcohol?

  • Neglect responsibilities with children due to substance abuse?

  • Avoid social functions where alcohol is not served?

  • Prefer to hang out with other heavy drinkers and avoid socializing with people who don't drink?

  • Hide bottles of alcohol?

  • Undergo a personality change when using alcohol or other drugs?

  • Disrupt holidays or special occasions by getting high or drunk?

  • Lie to employers, relatives or friends to hide his or her alcohol or drug use?

  • Drive while intoxicated?

  • Drink in the morning or early in the day?

  • Drink alone?

  • Deny drinking when it is obvious he or she has been drinking?

  • Have friends or relatives ask him or her to stop or cut down on his or her use of alcohol or other drugs?

  • Promise to stop using alcohol or other drugs but returned to use?

  • Fail to remember what occurred during a period of alcohol and/or drug use?

  • Have a family history of alcoholism?

  • Have periods of remorse after drinking or drugging and apologize for his or her behavior?

  • Justify his or her use by blaming a stressful life style or difficult emotional situations?

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