Decode Baby Cries
By Kathryn Sucich
What if babies really did come with an instruction manual – one that could help you during those 3 a.m. crying bouts?
Turn to the troubleshooting page and it might say, “Problem: baby crying uncontrollably, has a distinct ‘h’ sound in the cry. Diagnosis: dirty diaper.”
Imagine being able to decode your baby’s sounds.
Priscilla Dunstan, an Australian mom who says she has a rare photographic memory for sound, claims she has unlocked the secret language of babies and can provide moms and dads with a guide to their babies’ cries. She’s selling DVDs on www.dunstanbaby.com that claim to teach parents how to distinguish among a baby’s cries. And, of course, she’s making the talk-show circuit, including appearances on Oprah that have new parents intrigued.
Dunstan isn’t the first to try to “decode” babies. There have been other books and products created through the years – and yet many parents still survive the first few months with little more than a thermometer, clean diapers and the advice of experienced friends.
According to Dunstan, every baby age 0-3 months makes five distinct sounds to communicate its needs. When parents are able to identify the sounds, they can more quickly respond to their babies’ needs, resulting in happier babies and parents.
The five sounds in the Dunstan Baby Language are:
• “Neh” – meaning, “I’m hungry”
• “Owh” – meaning, “I’m tired”
• “Heh” – meaning, “I’m uncomfortable”
• “Eairh” – meaning, “I have lower gas”
• “Eh” – meaning, “I need to burp”
Dunstan says it’s normal for babies to not always use every word, but they’ll use the words that indicate their most pressing needs – for example, an overly gassy baby might use the “eairh” and “eh” words most often.
According to Dunstan’s research, once parents learned the sounds in the Dunstan Baby Language, 70 percent reported their baby settled faster, 50 percent of mothers say they bonded better with their babies and experienced a better feeding and 50 percent say they got more sleep.